Sunday, February 17, 2013

Doggie Daycare


                Grace has never liked when I left for work. She disappeared when the time came for her to get in her crate, and I’d find her curled up on her bed in my room. She pretended to be asleep, her eyelids drooping. She wanted me to think that she’d be good and she’d sleep on her bed all day.
                But I know better than to trust my dog. She’s got a lot of puppy left brewing inside her, and she can’t help herself sometimes. If I left her home alone and out of her crate one day, I’d come home to a layer of stuffing-snow on the carpet and shredded cloth everywhere.
                Eventually she’ll be mature enough to wander the house while I’m out. Eventually being the keyword there.
                My new, albeit temporary, job means I’m out of the house forty hours a week. Eight hours a day could be considered a long time for Grace to be cooped up inside her crate. Mom thinks that at least, and she suggested we increase the days she goes to doggie daycare during the week.
                So Grace heads off to East Bridgewater twice a week instead of once.
                Grace approaches doggie daycare the same way she approaches her crate at bedtime: pulling, whining, and insisting until she gets exactly what she wants. The moment the car turns down the long, single lane driveway with trees encroaching on both sides, Grace starts bouncing in the back of the car. She pings off the sides of the car and whines like a mad woman.   
                She would leap from the back of the car the moment I opened the hatch, leaving me to scramble for the pink leash trailing behind her. I didn’t much like that, and we’ve come to an agreement that she’s not to hop off the tailgate until I tell her she can.
                Because of my schedule, Dad drops her off in the mornings and Mom picks her up. In the ten hours between, Grace plays and runs and wrestles with the other dogs. She wears herself out; back at home, she settles herself into her bed and only wakes up long enough for a bathroom run before bedtime.
                I love my sleepy puppy. I love how she smells of the indoor room at daycare: the smell of disinfectant mixed with a faint stale scent. I love how she looks at me from behind her half-closed while curled in her bed. I love the sound of her snoring from across the room.
                This full time job in Plymouth probably won’t last much longer, and I occasionally need to keep whispering Ohio to myself as a reminder of long term goals just to get through the day. I may not be enjoying the uncertainty of a temporary job or of exactly what will happen in the coming months. But coming home to a sleepy puppy and knowing that she had the time of her life today makes my day a little bit better. 

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Travel Writing

I signed up for an online travel writing course through a local university back in January, and I'm almost halfway through at this point. I've taken a few online writing courses so far: an editing one, one on writing mystery novels, and another on romances. This travel writing one was next on my list, and I've been eyeing it all fall. Money kept me from signing up right away. A pair of part time jobs at minimum wage doesn't pay much, and expensive dog food for Grace's sensitive stomach takes a toll on my wallet.

Near the end of December and just before Christmas, I caught "Eat, Pray, Love" on one of the movie channels. I'd been meaning to watch it eventually because the movie trailer back when it first came out intrigued me. Plus I'm also a fan of Javier Bardem. I thought it'd be a fun, light movie to kill a couple hours. And it was, to a point. 

"Eat, Pray, Love" is based on a memoir written by Elizabeth Gilbert and follows her yearlong travels in Italy, India, and Bali. She learns to deal with her divorce, her spirituality, and falling in love again. The movie wasn't an Oscar contender, and it won't go down in the history of cinema for being one of the best movies of all time. 

But "Eat, Pray, Love" resonated with me. I'm not going through the same kinds of challenges Elizabeth Gilbert faced; I'm not looking to heal from a broken relationship or find inner peace. My hurdles amount to finding a stable career, producing publishable written work, and venturing out to find my place in the world. None of those are small feats, to be sure, however even the biggest challenges can be chipped away with small steps. 

So I signed up for the travel writing class. I don't regret that or the money spent on tuition, even though I often feel frustrated with the lack of actual writing assignments and any substantial/critical feedback from the other students. I'm learning. That's what's important. 

The assignment for this past Wednesday was to list the places I'd like to visit and to write about. The instructor suggested about 50 places, to include places both realistic in the near future and dream locations, and to post the list somewhere I'd see it every day. 

My list hit 75 places because I just kept coming up with more and more. These are places I know I'll visit some day and others I know I'll be able to visit in the next couple of years. Just looking at this list gets me excited at the possibilities. And I can't wait until I can start crossing places off of it. 

1.       Gettysburg, PA
2.       Brisbane, Australia
3.       Sydney, Australia
4.       New Zealand
5.       Hawaii
6.       London, England
7.       Budapest, Hungary
8.       Dublin, Ireland
9.       Glasgow, Scotland
10.   Edinburgh, Scotland
11.   Barcelona, Spain
12.   Seville, Spain
13.   Athens, Greece
14.   Paris, France
15.   Normandy, France
16.   Charlotte, NC
17.   Talladega, AL
18.   San Diego, CA
19.   Los Angeles, CA
20.   Las Vegas, NV
21.   Seattle, Washington
22.   Maine
23.   Daytona Beach, Florida
24.   New Orleans, LA
25.   Newfoundland, Canada
26.   Vicksburg, MS
27.   Quebec, Canada
28.   Niagara Falls
29.   Grand Canyon
30.   St. Maarten
31.   San Juan, Puerto Rico
32.   Calgary, Canada
33.   Dracula’s Castle
34.   Inverness, Scotland
35.   Charleston, SC
36.   Darlington, SC
37.   Outer Banks, NC
38.   Columbus, OH
39.   Richmond, VA
40.   Savannah, GA
41.   Newport, RI
42.   Hyannis, MA
43.   Edith Wharton House, MA
44.   Philadelphia, PA
45.   Gold Coast, Australia
46.   Salem, MA
47.   Japan
48.   Stockholm, Sweden
49.   Watkins Glen, NY
50.   Mount Rushmore
51.   The Australian Outback
52.   Bristol, TN
53.   Nashville, TN
54.   Memphis, TN
55.   Mount Vernon
56.   Casper, WY
57.   Appomattox Court House, VA
58.   Virginia Beach, VA
59.   Rome, Italy
60.   Sorrento, Italy
61.   Florence, Italy
62.   Pompeii and Mt. Vesuvius
63.   Venice, Italy
64.   Costa Del Sol, Spain
65.   Buenos Aires, Argentina
66.   Montana
67.   San Antonio, TX
68.   Martinsville/Ridgeway, VA
69.   Concord, NC
70.   Hershey, PA
71.   Erie, PA
72.   Florida Keys
73.   Canary Islands
74.   Fort Lauderdale, FL
75.   Miami, FL